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12.02.2012

Most important thing is to learn about women..xD


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    The most important thing is to learn about women.The most important thing is to learn about women. If you never understand women in general, how will you understand your girl? Women are very maternal creatures: they love taking care of things. That's why she cooks you great meals, or worries when you don't call after you've driven home. Understand that she is not being excessively clingy; it is a natural part of being a woman, and therefore part of who she is. Perceive it as a good thing; women are only inclined to do this if they genuinely love and care about you a great deal. If she has stopped doing these things, there's something wrong! Most women are also very naturally affectionate and will often smother you with hugs and kisses and the like. The fact is, most will. That's how they think they are showing their love for you. If you feel this is a little too much, tell her gently that you like/love her a lot, but you're not ready for so much attention just yet. This won't hurt her feelings, but she will get the message. Remember also that women have been raised around stories that end in girls finding the 'Perfect Man', become a Princess and live happily ever after. Therefore, it is ingrained into their subconsciousness that they must find a man who is perfect in every way. While this is basically impossible, this article will help you understand what will make her happy, without changing your own personality.

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    Tell her you love her, make sure you mean it.

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    Tell her she's beautiful and mean it. Compliment her not only on her looks, but also on her accomplishments, talents and abilities. Always be sincere.

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    Be confident. Be proud of being her boyfriend. There are appropriate times and places for affection. Kissing and intimate touching does not usually go over well in public. But don't be too shy to hold her hand in public because you shouldn't be ashamed that she's yours. She will love it when you walk by her friends and they see how good her boy friend is.

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    Never lie. Lies mean trouble. This can taint your relationship and reduce her trust in you considerably.

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    Do not argue in public and cause a scene. This will humiliate her or you and she'll think twice about going out with you again. Similarly, If you and your girl have an argument, don't do or say things to her that are mean and spiteful. That will make her know your inner self, and don't you want to be her Mr Right ?

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    Do NOT flirt with other girls AT ANY TIME,. If you do you're on thin ice: She's bound to find out, you'll lack purpose in your relationship and you'll hate yourself for your nasty behaviour..besides it means you're not loyal to your girl or your relationship with her. Most girls will view it as cheating and you just might lose her, and it'll serve you right. Don't be stupid, value what you have and know.

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    Don't ever let her suffer from back-seat syndrome. Granted, you might have very close female friends who have been around longer. But if you appear to enjoy spending more time with them than your girlfriend - and she has noticed - she may be suffering from what girls call 'back seat syndrome'. Think: how would you like it if she preferred hanging out with guy friends to you? What if she hung out with her guy friend alone? What if she was constantly texting other guys in your company? If she starts to mention that she is feeling second-place, change your attitude quickly but tell nobody. Keep your female friends, they give useful feedback, don't let them slip out of the picture. Find balance. Don't text them in her company, and let her know that you prefer spending time with her than other girls. Like you would with other guys, she will naturally begin to assume they are not threat. Don't lie to her; you should genuinely enjoy spending time with your girl. If you are attracted to one of your female friends, it is a good idea to cut the communication short,be friendly but cut it clean; it is highly likely your girlfriend will notice, girls have many ways to know and boys are so basic and ultimately shewill start to consider how loyal you are to her.

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    Don't start getting lazy about how you look just because you think she's yours. Continue trying to impress her because she might just lose interest if you begin to slack off. Look smart for you and for her !

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    If you're with your friends, never ignore her and start talking with your friends or walk off with them as if she's not there. How would you feel if she did this to you? Invisible? Make sure you pay attention to her when you're with your friends. Think about it - she's a friend too. Girlfriend. If you're with a group of mates, make sure she doesn't feel left out if she doesn't know them well.Keep close to her or glance at her every so often just to let her know you know she's still there and offer a genuine smile.

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    Become friends with her friends. It gives you more things in common with your girl. Eventually, her friends will love you, and that's a definite turn-on for your girlfriend and a good thing for you too.

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    Let her win the argument, if she's got a point. It may be a silly issue and you probably think you're right but, let her win. The sillier the argument, the more reason you have to let her win. Why stir up trouble? She doesn't want to look stupid, don't make it hard on yourself. If you just tell her she's right, you probably won't hear about the issue again, save yourself and just tell her she's right and you'll both feel great.

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    Make a good impression on her parents. Even if you don't particularly like them, they can be your greatest allies in the long run.

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    BE THOUGHTFUL. The small things matter the most. Be a gentleman; hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out; have a jacket or a sweater handy so you can give it to her, but don't outdo it, it won't loo sincere. When she isn't feeling well, or home sick bring her some soup, hot tea or flowers. Hold her hand at the movies or when you're walking. Get her something just because. Make her happy by buying her little gifts. Small things like a single flower or a mag you know she likes, a bag of her favorite candy or a chocolate bar will go a long way. Girls love that.

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    Remember important dates. This is a big deal with women. Birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones are all opportunities to show her how special she is to you.Keep an agenda or a calendar with all these dates. When it's her birthday, bring her breakfast in bed and some flowers. When it's your anniversary, book something special for you both to let her know how much you appreciate and love her. Remember that women have the idea of being spoiled on these occasions embedded into their psyche from the media. Rose petals on your bed, dinner at a beautiful restaurant - she will have some expectations, and if she is realistic she will not expect much, but she'll appreciate your caring all the same.

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    Remember what she likes and dislikes. How does she like her eggs cooked? What is her favorite flower? Is she a morning person? Try to one, too. She will be very impressed that you have been paying attention. It pays to be thoughtful.

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    Touch her regularly and on the spur of the moment. Even the slightest touch can make a woman feel special. Hold her hand, give her a hug or gently touch her face; these gestures will all make her feel protected and loved.

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    Write her love notes. They don't have to be long, mushy and poetic if you're not the type, even quick and silly ones will do but try to make them cute ( add some related drawing ) and show her that you care. This is a great way to be romantic. Tell her that you're lucky that you found her. She loves it when you say it. Just be sure you mean it. Look her in the eye and mentally say it.

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    Every woman loves a bit of alone time with her partner. Book a whole day for the two of you to be alone. Watch a movie at home, massage her back, snuggle and be intimate. She will love you for it.

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    Share your everyday events and thoughts with your girl.Be sensible and keep a private corner: a naked person is powerless. Being open and communicative makes her feel like you want her in your life. On the same note, listen to her advice even if you don't agree, force yourself to listen and to see the good of her reasoning. Keep an open ear and an open mind.

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    Listen to her. The number one complaint many women have regarding men is that they don't listen. Even if you're not particularly interested in what she's saying, listen, then acknowledge that you were listening. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about anything! Be there for her through thick and thin. She will feel comfortable with you and trust you.

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    Always stand up for her no matter what;( up to a point but discuss it privately ) It shows her that you are often on her side.

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    Lastly, if you want her to be yours forever, let her know you're there for her when she needs you, and most importantly make her feel loved, special, safe and protected. Your woman wants to be your queen so treat her as such and you'll glide happily along.

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    If she wants to pay for something, let her. Don't change roles, you're the man.

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    Make sure you spend enough time with her to show her how much you care, and to make your relationship grow.( with all it entails )





    L NG

10.09.2012

How to reduce pain during periods

  1. Apply a heating pad to your lower belly area, below your belly button. Never fall asleep with the heating pad on.
  2. Do light circular massage with your fingertips around your lower belly area.
  3. Drink warm beverages.
  4. Eat light but frequent meals.
  5. Follow a diet rich in complex carbohydrates such as whole grains, fruits, and vegetables, but low in salt, sugar, alcohol, and caffeine.
  6. Keep your legs raised while lying down, or lie on your side with your knees bent.
  7. Practice relaxation techniques such as meditation or yoga.
  8. Take warm showers or baths.
  9. Walk or exercise regularly, including pelvic rocking exercises.
  10. Lose weight if you are overweight. Get regular, aerobic exercise.

7.03.2012

50 FACTS ABOUT GUYS

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

Advantages of not having a “LOVER”..

1.Save time.
2.Can sleep well.
3.Don’t hav 2 bother abt missed calls..
4.Don’t hav to worry abt how u look..
5.Can eat in any restaurant..
6.No boring sms in the middle of night..
7.Can talk with all girls..
8.U won’t hear “aaw.. U r dull today”..
9.Can go anywhere with any one..
10.Don’t hav 2 listen same old crap jokes..
BONUS:- U will live a long life....so be aware of LOVER

3.31.2012

Signs a Guy Loves You Even Though He Doesn't Admit It Yet


  • He loves being with you and makes every excuse just to see you. 
  • He makes an effort to remember special dates and occasions. 
  • He remembers things you say, things you like or things you do. 
  • He makes an extra effort to make you feel good when you had a bad day. 
  • He feels it is natural to be protective of you. 
  • He makes intense eye contact when he talks to you 
  • He wants to know more about you, your family, interests, likes, dislikes, in short, everything that has to do with "YOU". 
  • He talks about the future -- with you, in it. 
  • He gets upset that you don't return his calls or texts, of if you don't answer his calls, or when your phone is off or out of reach, but tries not show it. 
  • He likes to touch and show his fondness for you.

**just an assumption**

How to know if your Guy likes you

***SIGNS HE IS INTO YOU*** 


  • He listens; he listens to you no matter how boring your topic is
  • He wants to spend time with you; instead of hanging out with his friends, he prefers being with you, 
  • He stare at you; he stare at you a lot
  • He shows you off; he introduce you to his family
  • He calls you for no reason; he calls you from time to time when you are not together and when he does, he doesn't have anything to say.
  • He includes you in his future; when the both of you are together, he talks about the both of you together in future
  • He shares your interest; assuming you like fishing and dancing, and maybe he doesn’t really like it, but because of the love he have for you, he starts going fishing and dancing with you. That means he wants you to be happy and considers your happiness his happiness
  • How he treat you in public; when the both of you are walking on the road, he holds your hand, waist or put his hand around your neck, that means he is into you, but when he walk distance away from you, or when you meet someone along the road, maybe one of his friends, and he hesitate to introduce you.
  • He treats you and your family with kindness; he tries his best to make your family and friends happy, even if he doesn't like them.
  • He gives you the key to his place; that means he considers the both of you as one, its also shows that he trust you and that he has nothing to hide nothing to hide from you, that is also a sigh that he is ready to take the relationship to another level


***just an assumption,it depend on the guy***

How to Tell If A Guy Doesn't Like You: 09 Signs That Let You Know



Most women know that decoding male behavior in relationships is like trying to understand string theory. Since men often have communication skills that are barely beyond the capabilities of average zoo monkeys, women are left to fend for themselves.


  1. He never shows you his place or takes you anywhere near where he lives
  2. He won't introduce you to his friends or family.
  3. He only hugs you with part of his body.
  4. He forgets your name. 
  5. If you do meet a friend or family member, he introduces you as "this chick who won't leave me alone".
  6. When you go to kiss him, he turns away and vomits.
  7. When you are making love, he asks you to put a bag over your head
  8. He actually says: "I don't like you
  9. You always call him. He never calls you.

3.22.2012

How to find out if a Girl is interested in you

Not all women are the same. Still, she may give away signals that she likes you or dislike you through her looks, behavior or body language. Here are 15 things to watch out to find if she is interested in you.

1. She likes talking and spending time with you:

2. She gives her Contact Number

3. She introduces you to her Friends and Family

4. She touches you often

5. She mimics you in your Actions

6. She gets Jealous when she sees you with other Girls

7. She laughs at your Jokes

8. She may even Flirt with you Openly

9. She brags about you

10. You may meet her accidentally very often

11. She is conscious of her looks when you are around

12. She may play hard to get: She is comfortable with you

13. She would go out of her way to help you

14. She remembers your special Days

15. She talks of a Future together

1.22.2012

Fooyang de Crevettes

Ingrédients:

1.   6 œufs.
2.   1 c.à.c de sucre.
3.   Sel.
4.   Huile.
5.   50g de champignons chinois sec.
6.   200g de crevettes décortiquées.
7.   100g d'oignon hache.
8.   50g de patate chinoise (facultatif).
9.   2 c.a.c de sauce de soja.
10.                200g de pousses de soja.

Préparation:

1.   Mettre à tremper les champignons et une fois bien ramollies les hacher finement.
2.   Couper la patate chinoise.
3.   Battre les œufs avec le sucre, le sel et la sauce de soja.
4.  Faire chauffer l'huile dans un wok et faire sauter les oignons, les champignons les patates et les pousses de soja.
5.   Ajouter les crevettes et laisser cuire un petit moment.
6.   Verser l’œuf battu, mélanger, et laisser sur le feu jusqu'à ce que cela ce solidifie.

7.   Il est préférable d'utiliser des crevettes crues et non-cuites, cela donnera plus de goût.
8.   Les patates ont étés utilisées dans cette recette, mais vous pouvez utiliser des petits pois par exemple.

1.16.2012

Moral stories for girlsss

A poor boy loved a rich girl.

One day the boy proposed her. Then the girl said, "listen! Your monthly salary is my daily hand expenses. Should I be involved with you? How could you think that? I will never love you. So, forget me 'n get engaged with someone else of your level."

But somehow the boy could not forget her so easily.

10 years later.

One day they became face to face in a shopping center. The lady said, "Hey! You! How are you? Now I'm married. Do you know how much is my husband's salary? Rs. 2 lac per month! Can you imagine? 'n he is also very smart."

The guy's eyes got wet with tear by hearing those words.

After few minutes her husband came before the lady could say something to the guy, her husband started to say by seeing the guy.

"Sir! You here? Meet my wife." Then he said to her wife, "I'm going to assist a project of sir, which is of Rs. 200 core. 'n do u know a fact? Sir loved a girl but he didn't get her. That's why still he is unmarried. How much lucky the girl was. Isn't it? Now a day’s who can love like that way?"

Moral: Life is not so short. So, don't be so proud of yourself and damn others. Situations change with time. Everyone should respect other's love.

1.14.2012

Mauritius Honeymoon

Honeymoons are the most enjoyable as well as the most interesting part of wedding celebrations. It is the time when the couple gets time to seclude themselves from everyday crowd and spend some time together. Deciding the honeymoon destination is a difficult task. It should be a place where both the couples can enjoy. It is true that any place where you go with your beloved appears pretty. But the location definitely plays an important role in making your honeymoon memorable. Newly weds when deciding on a Honeymoon destination must opt from the best Honeymoon packages and Honeymoon vacation resorts for accommodation.

Being an important tourist destination, well-planned Holidays to Mauritius can be a retreating paradise, which can escalate the dampen spirits of a human soul on the seventh sky. Especially, Honeymoons in Mauritius are really very popular amongst the newly weds. There’s a lot in store for the couples enjoyment during honeymoons in Mauritius. The vast stretches of golden sand beaches, add a charm to the beauty of Mauritius. Astounding Honeymoon packages of Mauritius at best prices can be booked online or through travel agencies. There are myriad Honeymoon vacation resorts in Mauritius that caters to their guests need and are spangled with cutting edge amenities, sumptuous wining and dining, recreational facilities and equipped rooms.

There are plenty of things that you can try in Mauritius. You can laze on the beaches and tan yourself to golden bronze. Or else, if you like adventure then you can try the various water sports in Mauritius like snorkeling, scuba diving, surfing and swimming. Make your trip most convenient and absolutely fit for your budget by choosing the cheap air flights to Mauritius.

Most of the important cities in Mauritius have their own distinct local life. Some of the popular cities you can visit while enjoying your Mauritius honeymoon are as follows:



  • Pointe aux Piments
  • Belle Mare
  • Port Louis
  • Cap Malheureux
  • Trou aux Biches
  • Blue Bay
  • Terre Rouge
  • Grand Bay
  • Flic en Flac
  • Le Morne Plage 
 The developed economy, high standard of living, modern lifestyle, abundant tourist attractions, exotic beaches and so forth have always caught the attention of international tourists. Modern infrastructure and transportation facilities have facilitated commuting to the numerous tourist attractions in Mauritius easier and convenient. Handful of theSightseeing in Mauritius are listed below for your reference.

Port Louis: The capital city and chief port of Mauritius, Port Louis was constructed in the year 1735 by the noted French governor, Mahe de Labourdonnais. This harbor is located between mountains which make it worth watching. Along the square there are ample numbers of French styled buildings, which enhances the charm of this tourist attraction in Mauritius. Municipal Theatre, two churches, one mosque, Government house, Supreme Court and so forth are some of them.

Pamplemonsses Garden: In the year 1767 this spectacular garden was built by Pierre Poivre. 'Mon Plaisir', the chateau of Pierre Poivre is housed here and attracts people to a great extent. The indigenous species of plants, exhibited in this garden, dates back to several decades.

Black River George: This is a national park stretching as area of 6,574 hectares. It was construction in order to save the natural vegetation of the island and make it one of the most important Mauritius sightseeing. One can walk along the greenery and reach the highest point of the island, Black River Peak as well.

Ile Anx Cerfs: The beach and lagoon of this area are relished by the tourists. Apart from sunbathing, the water sports, restaurants, souvenir stores attract crowd in large numbers.

How to win and fall in love with a woman.

- Lack of brutality, some minimal manner. Men, understand, take for granted that you are very rude to women and those of the gate of your jokes, manners and speech.
At the same social level, women are almost always makes a man much greater demands on intelligence, than there is usually a man.
Politeness and manners minimum - the most powerful, simple and underrated tool in order to please a woman and fall in love with her himself. Importantly, the development of entry-level may take a couple of months at most, even if not very intensive training.
However, I do not mean that you need to become soft and feminine in nature and always speak the pure literary language. It is not. On the contrary, the strength, confidence, courtesy and intelligence are compatible it is, at least when you talk to the woman he loved.
Since this topic is too extensive and possibly misunderstood, then write out in detail how something in a separate article.

- The ability to talk about their emotions and in general say the proposal, consisting more than 4 words. If you want your woman to be with you is boring, bad, always something missing, there was some hidden anger, then talk to her as well as with men. Quick question on the case, no details, not relevant, lack of emotion and problem-solving.
If you want a woman was interested in you, so it has not experienced a thorn, you need to learn to speak a little differently.
In short, you need to talk in detail about everything, it is necessary to talk about their and others' emotions, even if it's a guess. There is no need to become a woman, so to learn to talk. This is a small practice and everything.

- The desire or consent to marry (or at least potential).Do you think this has nothing to do with your favorite to win the girl? Then you're the most naive of the living. Whether you like it or not, but a woman always appreciates you from the perspective of whether you have a family or not. This feminine instinct that tells her that need a stable man to raise children. May be, of course, that a woman already married and basically it all suits her and just want a man who does not want marriage, but it is more the exception.
So when you meet with a woman, refrain from speaking about himself or other men, where you say you are at least 20 years are not going to get married even at the best woman. So, naturally, do not talk about other men like words: "Well, what an idiot he is, he had married." After these remarks about "freedom relationships" you have every opportunity to be alone, albeit in a "free floating".

Different types of dating relationships


Some people will be looking for causal online friendships while other may be in to long lasting committed relationships. Online dating sites caters to all types of users by providing such services.

Casual relationships
In casual dating , there is no serious involvement between two people. Its only like causal friendship and bonding with lesser degree of personal attachment.

Committed relationships
In committed and long lasting relationships, there is higher level of personal bonding and love between two individuals which may lead to marriage in the future.

Flirting
Its quite common for single men to flirt and sometimes,even women too flirt. Its a playful way where love is expressed and involves a lot of fun. It is not at all serious and doesn’t give hope of future commitments or expectations.

Minimize the risks involved in online dating

Authenticity of personal details
Registering a profile in online dating site require you to provide some basic personal information like name, date of birth, email gender etc. People have the controls in their had as to the degree of truth that is attached to each piece of information. Some people use fake names and profiles. But a person who is serious in finding real love will not waste precious time by flirting online.

Trust the game
Yes, its a matter of trust and faith. You just have to be positive and take whatever that comes in life. Be confident and trust the game of online dating.

Luck
Finding true love online through the help of dating sites involves a great deal of luck on your side.

Intuition
The online profiles in the dating sites, whether genuine or fake, are created by people like you only and Human beings have a sense of intuition which comes at the right time telling you which is right and wrong. So, you will be able to find true and honest profiles from the dating sites by using intuition.



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